I now understand this saying, so much better than I ever did before, after having not seen my partner - who I love more than anything - for 3 months, which is painful enough in itself. The evening before I come back to adelaide to surprise him he rings and dumps me, with only the vague reason that its too hard being so far apart, well im back now so WTF!!! anyway these last two weeks since that happened have been the hardest two weeks of my life, never thought I could be in this much pain simply from a break up, I barely ate for a week, because the idea of food made me want to vomit and have stopped crying for varying stints since, at least I have been sleeping. Its so hard to lose the one you love. I hope that those of you who read this never have to go through this pain, I wouldn't wish it on anyone.